I worked my way through my partners entire gin bar (she had one at her house) and told her it had evaporated due to the hot weather! I also went home drunk once and said that my therapist (who I was seeing about addiction) had told me to grab a bottle and go and celebrate my recovery! Madness. The final straw was when I was found drinking a bottle of wine in the morning and it was either rehab to sort myself out or my relationship was over for good. I went to The Priory, Roehampton on the inpatient addiction program and spent 30 days focusing on my mental health. It all went very well and I thought i had solved my problems. I hadn’t. I was still in denial and was staying sober for all the wrong reasons, for everyone else but myself. I soon relapsed and in turn lost everything. My girlfriend, my beautiful boxer dog, the house, the car, the business etc. I ended up living on my own and spiralled out of control into a hole of constant drinking and drug taking. At my lowest point where I wanted to end it all, I had just attended a wedding of a family friend. I drank so much that I ended up taking my clothes off, getting into fights and told all of the guests to (insert swear word here!) I had hit a new level of rock bottom and something had to happen. I had a panic attack after throwing up blood one night and that was when I had a moment of clarity. It felt like a sledge hammer to the head, I had to sort my life out or it was all over. I would most certainly die. Exactly a year later from my first stay, I booked myself back into The Priory again as an inpatient on the general mental health program. I was no longer in denial and I was very aware of how serious my relationship with alcohol had become. I was diagnosed with ADHD and Cyclothymia during my stay and finally it all started to click. After delving deep during psychology sessions and putting in as much self care work as I could, I was finally understanding how my brain worked. It had been an awfully sad journey to get to this point but I was getting sober for me this time and I was going to do whatever it took to heal and ensure I never drank again. From that day I’ve never looked back. Since my sober date I’ve raised money for charities such as Mind and Cancer research (as my dad had it), found my sober tribe on Dryy (the sober platform), started a consistent 5am morning routine including meditation, journaling and mental health research. Started hiking, climbing mountains and am currently training for a half marathon. I’ve reconnected with loved ones and friends and gone out of my way to be present and there for them. I have also lost 2 stone in weight but healthily since giving up alcohol, and finally feel the happiest I have ever been and like how I look in the mirror!! I’m finally starting to forgive myself for acts that I saw as unforgivable and all the hurt and pain I’ve caused through alcohol and drug abuse. The one major lesson I’ve learnt, is that life is not about waiting for the storm to pass but learning to dance in the rain! I wish I hadn’t sat in such a deep hole of sadness, thinking alcohol was the answer when it just added flames to the fire. I’ve finally decided to be loud and proud about being sober and the best version of myself. From everything I’ve been through, I now just hope that sharing my stories will help others and ensure they don’t have to suffer alone. Dropping the poison was the best thing I have ever done and this is just the beginning for me. Its been 7 months and this is the start of the rest of my life. It’s never too late to turn things around and I’m finally realising you shouldn’t lose todays happiness by thinking about yesterday’s pain. The future is finally looking extremely bright.